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If you ever visit the Salisbury
Substance Abuse Community Center (SSACC), notice the sliding
partition that, when pulled shut, cuts the main hall in half.
The carpentry is nicely done and it provides a real service
by making the room twice as functional.
It also saved a man's life.
As Pat Boccia, one of the moving forces behind the Center
tells it, the man who built the sliding partition was, no
surprise, a carpenter. But he was also a recovering alcoholic
struggling to stay sober.
As the man fought his addiction, he found that his life
was coming apart at the seams. His wife told him she was leaving
him, his business was falling apart, and because of his disastrous
financial condition, he was on the point of losing everything,
including possibly his life.
It seemed to him, in his despair, that the parts of his life
that he held most dear were being taken away from him. At
this point, who wouldn't have been tempted to take just one
little solacing drink?
Just one. Just to ease the pain a little. Just to forget
for a moment. Just to have a little inner peace.
The carpenter was tempted, but because of his participation
in a 12-Step Recovery Program at the Center, he was aware
of something critically important. For a recovering alcoholic,
one drink can rapidly turn into twenty drinks. For an alcoholic,
one drink is too many and a thousand aren't enough.
For a recovering alcoholic, that first drink is a giant step
forward on the road to death. And it isn't the 20th drink
that kills you; it's the first drink, because it's that first
drink that inevitably leads to countless more.
Fortunately, that man didn't have to face his temptation
alone. With the support of his friends at the SSACC, he relied
on the 12-Step Program, and he found was able to focus on
an alternative to drinking.
That alternative was using his skills as a carpenter to
build the partition. He worked on it with a mania, hardly
pausing to take a breath, doing everything he could to focus
on the job rather than on the despair he felt in his personal
life.
At the end of the week two wonderful things happened. The
job was finished and the virtually unbearable temptation to
drink was behind him.
Today, he credits the wall with saving his life. "It provided
me with an alternative to drinking," he tells everyone. It
gave him back his life.
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To Pat Boccia, the most important part of this story is that
with the SSACC, "You don't have to do it alone."
Knowing the importance of support and fellowship, Boccia,
along with some of his friends and mentors, decided back in
1987 that our area needed a place for people in recovery to
get together. Boccia's colleagues in this work included the
late Carl Porter, J. Arthur DeHoff, Jr., Bill Birddell and
several other concerned citizens in our area.
Renting a building and furnishing it was not an easy task,
but the founders refused to be discouraged. Today their efforts
have paid off, probably more than they dreamed. Initially,
they said that if the Center could save one life, it all would
be worth it.
Today, more than 800 people attend the various meetings each
week and there are 35,000 visits in the course of a year.
Those numbers include duplications because some people may
come in as often as twice a day in their efforts to overcome
alcohol or drug addictions.
The programs help not only people with substance abuse problems,
but there are also support programs for their families or
significant others. There are also programs specifically for
teens and tots.
All day long, whether there's a program or not, people are
welcome to come in for a cup of coffee, maybe a game of cards,
and the support of a caring community. To give an idea of
the scope of this socializing, the Center's second biggest
expense in its $50,000 a year budget is the $600 monthly coffee
bill.
Initially the founders felt that if they could save one
life, it would be worth it. Today, no one can know how many
lives the Center saved, but the odds are that there are hundreds,
if not thousands, who've been able to put their lives back
together, thanks to the SSACC.
The Salisbury Substance Abuse Community Center is located
at 501 Cross Street, just off Highway 13.
For more information, call 410 749 9482.
Lewis Carman, the SSACC Director's Wish List: Volunteers
to answer the telephone and greet people Copier Calculator
FAX Machine 6 lockers, 24 inches by 36 inches or larger, to
hold supplies for the various meetings
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