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On July 4th, Sister Mary Elizabeth,
85, fell on a ceramic tile floor in the kitchen of her residence
in Princess Anne. She suffered a dislocated shoulder, broke
her upper arm in four places and was immediately hospitalized
at Peninsula Regional Medical Center in Salisbury.
Painful and difficult as this accident was, there was a
beautiful side to it as well. One of the therapists who helped
Sister Mary Elizabeth said something that made Sister's spirits
soar.
In fact, the words were an inspiration to everyone who is
part of the Village of Hope. Here's the story of what happened
and also, here's why the therapist's words meant so much to
the staff and volunteers at the Village of Hope.
About seven years earlier, the therapist wasn't the strong,
respected and contributing member of society that she is today.
Back then she came to the Joseph House Village-now renamed
the Village of Hope-needing all the help she could get.
Her husband had just abandoned her, and she found herself
alone with a broken heart and little girl. The young woman
had no job skills, no family, and no safety net.
She had nothing and no place to go, until she found Sister
Mary Elizabeth and the transitional housing facility that
Sister founded for homeless and abused women. The young woman
stayed there for more than a year, getting her life back on
track.
The staff and volunteers at the home helped her in many
ways. They taught her, as they teach all the residents there,
such life skills as: budgeting, parenting, how to make a resume,
and how to make herself presentable for an interview.
Perhaps most important of all, they taught her how to have
enough belief in herself to be willing to try. Encouraged
by her new mentors, the young woman was able to get a day
job at Hardee's, and at night, she attended classes at Wor-Wic
Tech to get a professional degree.
The young woman persevered, got her degree and then landed
a wonderful job. It's a true success story, but it has a twist.
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Fast forward to July of 2000. When
Sister Mary Elizabeth was hospitalized, enduring the pain of
broken bones and a dislocated shoulder, one of the PRMC therapists
who provided comfort for her was the very woman that Sister
had helped seven years earlier.
Sister Marilyn, who tells this story, remembers what the
therapist said to Sister Mary Elizabeth. This isn't an exact
quote, but the words were pretty close to, "You took me in
when I had no where to go and no one to help me. You gave
me the start I needed and you gave me another chance with
my life. Thank you."
What a joy it must have been for Sister to know that the
woman caring for her was able to do so because of Sister's
efforts years earlier. The author and philosopher, Melody
Beattie, once said, "Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life,"
and that's how the therapist's gratitude must have felt to
Sister and the others who work at the Village of Hope.
The Village of Hope continues to provide help to homeless
women today. The shelter has 14 apartments for women and their
children and it offers a long term approach to the underlying
causes of homelessness. It allows residents to obtain an education,
job training, living skills, and personal healing during their
stay.
Susi Powell, Residence Director says, "We try to help these
girls to reestablish their lives. When we help one, and they
help someone else, we're all better as a result of it."
The Village of Hope is a United Way Agency
Wish List:
- Non perishable food
- School supplies
- Children's clothes
- Beds
- Lamps
- Dressers
- Blankets
- Towels
- Dishes, pots, pans, cutlery
- Toys
- Holiday decorations
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